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11 Places You Should Definitely Try Having Sex to Spice Things Up

If you feel as if your sex life is becoming a bit dull, then you might just need to spice things up. You can do this by switching things up, including the location for where you and your partner have sex.

The bedroom is the standard place to have sex, but for some people, doing it in the kitchen, bathroom, or living room, might seem like more exciting places to do it. But if you really want to make things exciting, try leaving the comfort of your home.

Theres a whole world for you to explore, and have fun in, as long as you don’t get caught and get a ticket. But try to be a bit more adventurous and think outside the box. Here are 11 places you should definitely try having sex to spice things up.

Hotel Room

A nice change of scenery can help spice up your love life. Invest in making it a memorable night by purchasing one of the best rooms for the night, something with an amazing view, great interior, and awesome amenities that you might not have back at home. Live it up and make yourselves feel amazing, while also being able to mess up some sheets you don’t have to worry about cleaning later on. Relax and enjoy.

In the car

The car can be a bit tricky, depending on your sizes and the size of the car, but it is doable. I do recommend rolling down the window just a bit, because it can get pretty foggy inside. But you’ll have to make sure not to be too loud and to not move too much so you don’t rock the car; you don’t want to draw attention. But the idea of getting caught and having to be discreet can make things more fun and sexy.

In a park

Having sex in the park can be pretty fun and exciting with the dangers that surround it, like being caught, or attacked by a raccoon. Make sure to go there late at night and to find a discreet area that has enough coverage with no cameras.

Wild card moment

Wild card moments are moments when you both are in the mood, and you have to find a place then and there to have sex. It can be fun and playful, and sometimes you find your options being limited, making it difficult, but also exciting because it dares you to do something outside your comfort zone.


Having sex on a balcony can be fun, with the fresh air around you, nothing but sky and maybe some surrounding buildings. But if you’re feeling nervous about having someone see you then get a hotel room in one of the highest floors, or on a side of the building where no one can see you. Having sex on a balcony is supposed to be exciting because it’s outside instead of the usual indoors inside the bedroom, and its semi-public, because you’re still technically in your room.

At an event

While at an event like an office party, birthday party, or wedding, steal your partner away for a bit to have some fun somewhere private. Its such a random and inappropriate thing to do at an event and that’s what makes it so exciting.

Fitting room

If the fitting room attendant isn’t around or, they don’t mind you “helping out” your partner in the fitting room, then you’re good to go. You’re still in public, but the fitting room protects your privacy at least, though if you’re sneaking in, I suggest one of you get on top of something so only one pair of feet are showing underneath.

On a boat

Having sex on a boat can be fun. Rent a boat, I suggest you check the forecast before you do, and sail or paddle out to an area where the two of you can have fun while being rocked by the waves.

In the woods

Embrace nature while embracing each other. You can either go camping and do it under the stars or bring a tent it you’d like some privacy, or if you want to fend off the bugs. But having sex outdoors will make you feel more free in the quiet and solitude of the woods. Though I suggest not watching any ax killer movies prior to doing this.

In front of a large window

Sometimes exposing yourself and releasing your inhibitions is the extra spice you need to bring some excitement to your sex life. We’re all used to having sex in bed, under covers, or sometimes with the lights off, so try to get out of your comfort zone and try something new.


Find a rooftop that won’t set off an alarm when you open the door to it, or go up the fire escape, and bring a blanket. With rooftops there can be more privacy because of the surrounding walls which can cover you from the eyes of neighboring buildings while you two are laying down (though that’s only the case for buildings the same height or smaller than yours). But if you go late at night, it’s dark enough for no one to see you, and there you can have sex underneath the stars, changing up the scenery while not having to travel too far from your house.

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