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5 Reasons Girls “Fake it” and Why You Shouldn’t Freak Out About it


No matter how much of a rockstar you think you are in bed (and I’m sure you’re amazing) I can assure you that at least one women you’ve slept with has faked it. Now don’t freak out, it really has nothing to do with you most of the time. Though sex is a great thing, sometimes we’re just not in the mood to do it, it can feel like work when you don’t want to have sex but you do it anyway.

So yes, to avoid the bullshit, women just fake it to get it over with and call it day. Now, most of the time this isn’t a direct reflection on you. You’re probably great in bed, but there are some reasons women just fake it. Here are 5 of those reasons:

She’s tired

If a women is tired, sometimes sex can literally feel like a chore (especially when you’ve been in a relationship for a long time). That doesn’t mean she doesn’t love you or that she’s not attracted to you. She’s just exhausted and she doesn’t want to put in the work. Let’s be honest, do you really want to have sex with someone who’s just not in the mood? Probably not. But in any case, she agrees to have sex because she knows you want to, so she just fakes it to get it over with already.

She’s busy

Guys have a habit of wanting to have sex when a woman is in the middle of doing like 50 things; I’m convinced it’s a gift. In any case, when she’s busy and you want to have sex, she’ll likely do it but she’ll probably fake it because she needs to get back to doing what she actually has to do. This is not a reflection on you or how good you are as a lover. A girl just has shit to do, yo.

Her mind is elsewhere

Sometimes women just know if they’re going to have an orgasm or not. When a woman’s mind is elsewhere, there’s a good chance that she won’t be able to reach orgasm just because that’s how life works sometimes. However, because she knows how much you love when she orgasms, she’ll fake it. It’s not a bad thing really, she just can’t get there this time. That doesn’t mean you haven’t gotten her there before.

She’s thinking about you

When a woman loves her man and she knows he loves when she comes first, she’ll fake it just to make him feel good about himself. She knows that she’s just not in the mood so she’ll fake it to make sure he enjoys himself. Really, it’s pretty selfless when you think about.

She’s just not into it

This is the only time that it’s actually a bad thing when a woman fakes it. It may mean that she’s just not into the sex in general. Now, obviously this sucks, but it doesn’t mean that as a man, you can’t get other women off. If a woman is not into the sex and she wants to get it over with, she’ll fake it, sure. However, there’s a good chance that you can get a bunch of other women to reach orgasm, so don’t sweat it too much.

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