As a woman, we go through a lot of dating cycles: we date the bad boy, the artsy broke guy, the businessman, the party animal, everyone. Considering I’ve been dating for the better part of a decade, I’ve run into every kind of man you can imagine and I’ve learned one very important thing: the sexiest men are the introverted men.
I know what you’re thinking, how can a shy guy be sexy?
Aww, bless your soul, you have no idea what you’re missing.
You never know what they’re thinking
Mystery is one of the sexiest thing in anyone that you’re dating. It will constantly keep you on your toes. That’s the kind of thing that will keep you interested and keep you wanting more. If you’re dating an introverted man, you’re never really going to know what’s going on in his head because he doesn’t talk too much. Instead, he’ll show you how he feels about you.
An introverted man knows how to actually be a man. He knows when to say what and when to keep his mouth shut. They know how to behave in any situation and it’s the sexiest thing you’ll ever experience.
They’re super laid back
What is likely the best characteristic of an introverted man is their ability to just chill. They don’t take everything someone does too seriously. They know how to relax and let things roll off of them. Meaning, they’re not going to get crazy if they think you did something wrong. They can have a conversation like an actual adult gasp.
They’re probably the most confident men in the world
I heard this phrase once: “the loudest people in the room usually have the least to say.” Well, considering introverted men are rarely loud, you better believe they have plenty to say, but they know how to keep their mouth shut. They’re smart as hell, and with that comes an über amount of confidence.
Just because introverted men aren’t loud and obnoxious doesn’t mean they’re not confident. On the contrary, because they know and accept who they are, they walk about with their heads held high, making no excuses for who they are. Love them or hate them, they will be themselves (although I’m pretty sure you’re going to love them).
That look they have
The only word I can actually use to describe it is smoldering. You know how a runway models makes their way down the stage and they glaze at you in a way that more or less makes you want to melt? That’s pretty much what introverted men do. They don’t say much, but they have a piercing gaze that feels like they’re looking straight into your soul.
Rather than constantly taking about how they feel about you, introverts are more likely to show you. Time and time again, they prove their feelings with actions, which is beyond sexy. Woman always say “I want you to prove it to me.” Well, if you’re one of those women, date a guy who’s just a little on the shy side.
They know who they are
Introverted men don’t make excuses for why they’re shy because they don’t care. They know who they are, what they like, they’re values, preferences, etc. There’s a kind of sophistication they give off that you don’t get from men who are show boats. Think about this way, would you rather have a man who’s mysterious or one that is constantly “on.” I don’t know about you, but I’m for the former.
Men who are introverted have a confidence about them that you wouldn’t always associate with the word introverted, but trust me, it’s there. The most recent guy I dated was an introvert and his mysterious nature was probably the sexiest thing about him. Just because someone isn’t a social butterfly doesn’t mean they’re weird, it means that you just need to peel back the layers, which is totally worth it.