Hey shallow assholes, how you doing today? I’m here to tell you that your viewpoint on looks in a relationship is shit and you should probably change that. Looks are NOT the most important thing when it comes to dating someone. Not by a mile.
There are things far more important than the way someone looks. And, TBH, if you’re only concerned with looks than you probably shouldn’t even be dating. Just keep swiping right on Tinder until someone agrees to have sex with you because that’s really what you’re looking for.
Anyways, here are a few things far more important than looks:
You know what’s more important than looks? Ease. And by that I mean the ease of the relationship. If the person makes you calm, makes you feel secure, makes you feel like together, the two of you can do anything, that’s more important than looks. Looks fade. But, if you feel like the person you’re with can put you at ease and the relationship is just comfortable, that’s worth it. When you’re looking for someone to really be with for the long haul, look for someone that gives you that feeling.
Have you ever heard of that lame ass thing that happens to some people when they meet someone they really like? They smile a lot. Like a lot. Like they can’t stop smiling. That’s something that’s far more important than looks. Looks come and go but when you have someone that can constantly keep a smile on your face, that’s when you hit the jackpot. And, it doesn’t hurt if you make them smile like a moron all the time too.
Looks are cool, but what you should be more concerned about is family. Does the person come from a good family, were they raised well, are they close with their family, is family important to them? Or, if they don’t come from a close family, is that something they want in the future? Those are the things you really have to think about when choosing the person you want to be with. Someone who knows the value of family and wants that with you.
How you feel
The most important thing that you can get from the person you’re with is the way they make you feel. They can be good looking and that’s great, but that’s not important. What’s important is that you feel happiness, joy, security, and bliss with them. The way someone makes you feel when you’re around them is far more important than the way they look.
Sure, sex isn’t the most important thing in a relationship, but it’s pretty damn important. So let me ask you this: would you rather be with someone insanely hot and have terrible sex, or someone decent looking and have mind blowing sex? Yeah, thought so.