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9 Ways to Find a Booty Call

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Have you been going through, somewhat of a dry spell? For some reason you’re just not getting laid like you used to, I mean if that was something that even happened to you on the regular…or at all.

Well, maybe you just need to just try some new approaches.

Now, if you’re just looking for a booty call, then this will be easy and also difficult at the same time. Luckily, there’s always going to be someone who is willing to have sex with you. The difficult part is finding someone who is ok with just having sex, rather than dating.

This article is to provide advice on how to get a booty call, so don’t think that after reading it and putting some of the tips to use that you’re entitled to get a response or some action. Remember that person also has a say, and consent is essential. This article is to help you find potential individuals whom you can run the idea across, and will hopefully lead you to getting some action.

Tinder

Set your self up a profile, pick out your most flattering pics, around 4 or 5, and make sure there’s variety. Create a short bio, listing 3 interests, and a vague location. Then, start swiping away. The thing abut tinder is that very rarely will you meet someone who wants to date seriously. These days, tinder is known more as the app you go to for hook ups.

Slide In The DM’s

Check out your Insta story to see who watches them religiously and see if they’ve liked more than 3 of your most recent pictures. If it’s a yes, then try sliding into their DM’s, be casual and friendly. If a dialogue opens up then you’re half way in. Try to schedule a time to hang out, give them some compliments, and flirt. If there’s a positive response, you’re golden.

Look up past flings

There’s nothing wrong with eating left overs from time to time. So, you could always hit up some past hookups to see what’s up with them.

Social Events

Try to go to some social events, mingle with some people, and maybe find a few potential individuals. Try to be more open and social at these events. Also, make the first move sometimes.

Socializing more

Go out with your friends more and have them be your wingmen/women. Go to the usual hookup spots such as bars, lounges, or clubs where most people are at looking for a good time just like you.

Let someone out of the friend zone

Maybe it’s time to let that person who has so desperately been trying to get out of the friend zone, out. You don’t have to start dating them, but make sure you two are on the same page, that this is just a friends with benefits situation.

Just approach someone and ask them out

Sometimes you need to just go for it. That means if you see someone whom you’re interested in then take a chance and talk to them. Hang out and feel out where things might possibly go. Though don’t be a dick and lead them on, though. Make sure you let them know before hand that “you’re not ready for a relationship yet” but that you’re interested in them.

Send a risky text someone who looks like potential

Send a risky text to that person whom you were flirting with at one point. By risky I really mean send the stereotypical texts that indicate you wanting to hook up like “wyd?” “hey, whats up?” “you up?” It sends a clear message about your intentions. Make sure to send the text sometime after 10 pm when people are usually in their feels.

Bait them in with an amazing photo of yourself

Make yourself look really good, find the perfect lighting, and take some selfies that will bait suitors into your thirst trap. Don’t post the picture too late at night, or too early in the morning. Do it in the afternoon or evening time when people are still up and most likely off of work.

 

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