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9 Women Who Were Virgins Before Marriage Tell Us What That First Night was Really Like


Slow clap for the women who waited until marriage, please.

Okay. Good. Thanks.

Though I didn’t save myself for marriage (I barely saved myself for someone I actually like) I admire the women who did. Whether it was for religious reasons or moral ones, the women who save their virginity for their husbands deserve a medal. Out of genuine curiosity, I wanted to find out what sex was like for these women who waited so fucking long. 

I managed to find 19 of them and here’s how they described it:

“It hurt like hell. My husband and I were both virgins for religious reasons and after we got married we basically ran to the hotel room. We’ve never really done anything before so this was the first time for everything. I will say that after some time it gets much, much better”-Jennifer, 24


“Sex is overrated, I can tell you that much. My husband and I had sex for the first time on our honeymoon and it was very uncomfortable. He wasn’t a virgin, but I was. I had no idea what I was doing because I had no idea what I liked.”-Rose, 25


“I was bleeding like hell because my husbands penis is huge. I guess that’s a good thing though.”-Catherine, 23


“It was amazing and it’s still amazing 4 years later.”-Rachel, 21


“Was it worth the wait? Eh. I think it would have been better if I would have just gotten it over with a long time ago. I was so nervous when it finally happened that I couldn’t even enjoy it.”-Ann Marie, 23


“It sucked at first. For the first month actually. Then as we learned each other’s bodies it got better and better.”-Eve, 22


“My husband and I were both virgins when we got married and it was the funniest thing ever because we literally had no idea what we were doing. Eventually we figured it out though.”-Jillian, 26


“I wish I didn’t wait for marriage to have sex. If I could, I would go back and have sex before. Mostly because the inexperience makes sex kind of suck. That and you’re always wondering if it’s actually good or not because you have nothing to compare it to.”-Sarah, 24


“The sex was terrible. We had done oral before so I figured it would kind of be the same, but it was terrible. The sad thing is that it never got better.”-Andrea, 22


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