When you first start sleeping with someone, sex can be insanely awkward. You (hopefully) know the basics, but you don’t know how the other persons body functions exactly. You don’t know what the like and don’t like, you don’t know exactly what to do to get them to climax, and unfortunately, it takes time to learn all of these things. Luckily, after a few months of being with someone, you start to get the hang of it.
Considering how uncomfortable sex can be with a new person, it’s a very, very, good sign that the two of you can laugh about it. Let’s be serious, how many time have you done something and say “whoops,” or heard a weird noise, or accidentally put something in the wrong place during sex? It happens, and if you can laugh about it, you’ve probably found the person you should spend the rest of your life with.
Sex makes us feel better than most anything in our world. Laughter is the second best. It’s in our nature to combine things we like, so go ahead and laugh it out.
I know what you’re thinking, how can laughing during sex possibly mean anything good? Well, it simply means that your intimacy is on a whole other level.
1. You’re comfortable together
Being able to laugh during sex is the ultimate sign that you and your partner are comfortable together. Sex can get weird sometimes, so being comfortable enough with each other to laugh about it simply means that your bond goes have beyond sex, especially if you’re able to move past it and keep going. Sex in general in intimate, duh, but when you can have a laugh in the middle of it, it just goes to show you that you’re relationship is about more than just sex, you happen to be best friends, too.
2. You get each other
When you are okay with laughing during sex, it just proves that you and your partner understand each other. Your relationship surpasses the typical relationship and you get each other on a level that’s much deeper. Let’s be honest, if you laugh during sex with someone who doesn’t actually get you, they’re probably going to think that you’re not into it or you’re just being weird. However, finding someone you can share something like that with proves that you know each other pretty damn well.
3. It’s real
Laughing during sex is intimacy at it’s purest from. You’re both able to look at situations and not take everything so seriously. You know that sex is something you share with someone you love, but so is laughing at the little things in life that are just straight up funny. If you’re in the middle of sex and someone does something weird, if you’re not laughing about you’re probably just being fake, which probably means your relationship is too.
Closing thoughts: It’s okay to laugh during sex, sex is suppose to be fun after all!