You hear it time and time again, if you’re with the same person for long enough, sex can get kind of routine. The fact of the matter is you need to change things up just you’re not a fucking acrobat, so you need to modify the positions you’ve got and mix them up a little bit. Enter doggy style (no pun intended).
Doggy style is one of the best position for both parties (it hits the woman’s ever-so-elusive g-spot and the guy gets a hell of a view) and it also happens to be one of the easiest positions to spice up.
Think about it, there’s only so much you can do in missionary, on top, on the side, blah blah. Granted, doggy style can get a little mundane too, but like I said, there are certainly a ton of things you can do to make it a little more interesting.
Side note: if doggy style isn’t your thing I highly suggest you try it because it’s awesome.
1. Grab onto him
When your man is hitting it from the back (just, that’s the terminology I feel like using right now), you often have nowhere to place your hands but straight ahead of you or to the side. Well, if you put a little more effort in, reach behind you and grab onto him. Grab onto his thigh and let him know how much you life it. Or, if he’s holding onto your waist, grab his hand and guide them to your breasts. There are a lot of things you can do with your hands, you just have to get a little creative.
2. Get low, really low
When you’re having sex doggy style, there’s a common misconception that you have to stand on all fours. Nope. Stick your ass up in the air and make sure the rest of your body is low. That way, your back creates a nice curve and your man gets the best view of his life. The lower the upper part of your body gets, the better it will feel for you because your man will have prime access to your g-spot. Plus, he can grab onto your ass for dear life and that feels amazing.
3. Ask him to get a little rough
Tell him to pull your hair, spank you, get a little dirty with it. Doggy style sex can boring unless you mix things up a little bit. Find something that you’re comfortable with and ask your man to do that for you. If he’s not super kinky, let him know that it’s okay and that you like it. If nothing else, men love to please in the bedroom, so eventually, he’ll get into it if he knows you really want it.
4. Look back at it
Instead of looking straight ahead at the wall, take some time to turn around and look at your man. Make eye contact, it’ll be sexy as hell. He gets a nice view when you have sex doggy style, but let’s face it, you can’t see shit. So, turn around and look back at it while he’s there. Trust me, it’ll turn both of you on.
5. Get super freaky
Like I said, men get the better end of the stick when it comes to the visuals of doggy style. He’s the on that can look down and see everything that’s going on, which is a major turn-on. So, try doing it in front of a mirror so both of you get a better angle. For that matter. Try doggy style sex anywhere and everywhere. Thank me later.